Planning your wedding should be just as fun and exciting as the big day itself! Now we know that stress is inevitable, which is why we’ve got you covered with this easy-to-follow timeline that takes you through each step of the journey–from sending those first exciting save-the-dates to adding those last sparkling touches. Consider this your personal roadmap to creating the wedding you want, filled with fun, love, and lots of happy memories!
When: 12 months before the weddings
One of the first big steps is securing your wedding vendors. This includes the venue for your ceremony and reception, your photographer, caterer, florist, and any music or entertainment. Vendors, especially popular ones, can book up fast, so getting this done early will give you a better selection and peace of mind. The rule of thumb when it comes to vendors? The earlier, the better!
When: 8 to 10 months before
Deciding who will stand beside you on your big day is a special moment. Reach out to your chosen friends and family early to ask if they would like to be in your wedding party. This gives them time to prepare and support you throughout the planning process. Whether it’s as bridesmaids, groomsmen, or in other roles, their involvement is a meaningful part of your celebration.
When: 6 to 8 months before the wedding
For many, choosing the wedding dress is a highlight of the planning process. Start this early, as custom dresses can take several months to create and alter. Schedule your final dress fitting close to the wedding date to ensure a perfect fit. Grooms and groomsmen should also finalize their attire at this time to coordinate with the overall wedding style.
When: 6 to 8 months before the wedding
Your wedding party plays a significant role in your wedding. About three months before the wedding, provide them with all the details they need. This includes information on their attire, the rehearsal schedule, and any specific duties they will have on the day. Clear communication is key to ensuring everyone is on the same page.
When: 6 to 8 months before the wedding
Start your wedding journey by announcing the date to your guests. These are important so that your guests can block off the date and have plenty of time to prepare, especially those traveling from afar. By sending early notice, you’re ensuring that your loved ones can be there to celebrate with you.
When: Ideally about 3 months before the wedding
Here in the Philippines, marriage licenses are valid for only 120 days. Applying for it about three months before your wedding is ideal. This will also kickstart the process for your pre-Cana interview, marriage counseling, and other necessary church or civil requirements. Getting this step done timely is crucial to avoid any legal or administrative hurdles.
When: 6 to 8 weeks before the wedding
Your wedding invitations are an introduction to your wedding’s theme and tone. Send them out two months in advance to give your guests enough time to RSVP. This timing also allows you to manage your final guest count and communicate it to your caterer and venue. Remember to include all necessary details like location, time, and dress code.
When: 6 to 8 weeks before the wedding
As your wedding day approaches, it’s time to finalize details with your vendors. Confirm menus, flower arrangements, timelines, and any specific requests you have. This is also the time to provide your photographer with a list of must-have shots and inform your DJ or band about your music preferences. These final confirmations help ensure your day runs smoothly.
When: About a week before the wedding
Beauty treatments are an essential part of your final preparations. Schedule appointments for waxing, hair colors, manicures, and pedicures about a week before your wedding. This timing ensures you look your best and avoids any last-minute stress. It’s also a great way to relax and pamper yourself before the big day.
When: The week before the wedding
The final week is all about tying up loose ends. Confirm all the details with your vendors, have the last fittings for your dress and suit, and ensure your wedding party is prepared. This is also the time to pack for your honeymoon if you’re leaving shortly after the wedding. Staying organized and checking off these last items will set you up for a fantastic wedding day.
Now it goes without saying that this timeline is just a guideline and can be adjusted to fit your specific wedding plans. And remember, the secret to a flawless and unforgettable day is all in the organization and getting a head start on the planning! Try not to be overwhelmed and breathe. You’ve got this!