At some point during the wedding planning, you might find yourself reflecting and wondering what married life is actually like. And if you’re feeling a little bit jittery and unsure about handling the ups and downs from the moment after you say, “I do,” don’t worry, it’s perfectly fine. But to help soothe some of your worries, we asked and compiled a few very real life lessons from these married couples who have been through it themselves. Some are funny, practical, and downright honest, and we hope that you remember them as you go through your own journey too.